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At some point you will need to be brave enough to ask a tough professional question

 


We all value our working environment.  As such, during the course of our time in our workspaces, we often find ourselves forming relationships with supervisors and others within our leadership hierarchy.  

Unfortunately, if we have reason to believe there will be a change in our working conditions, we may freak out because we do not know all of the details of the change.    So, there is this natural instinct to want to ask questions.

However, depending on the nature of the question, we may not feel confident or brave enough to ask questions.  We may worry that asking the question may hurt our reputation.  We may worry that asking the question may put the spot light on us.  We may worry that asking the question may potentially jeopardize our job.

And all of those worries are valid.

But as much as those worries may be valid, have you ever considered that by fearing the repercussions of asking those questions, you are hurting yourself?

Have you considered that asking the questions may reveal that you are risk taker?  Have you ever considered that by asking the questions, you may cause a positive spotlight to be cast upon you to see the great things you are doing?  Have you ever considered that asking the questions may potentially give you exposure and opportunities for other jobs?

The fear of the unknown is a powerful thing and not knowing how your employer will respond when you ask a tough question may drive you to not want to take any (as you would view it), unnecessary risks.   

However, at some point, you need to embrace the reality that making the decision to ask a tough professional question will not only prove you are brave but will also expand your horizons professionally.

Take the time to step outside of your comfort zone to ask the tough professional questions. With each question, you build on your professional bravery.






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