In 1998, I embarked on my law school journey at Florida State University with trepidation. I had elevated the idea of attending law school to almost mythical proportions. In my mind, only the best and brightest earned the opportunity, and I didn't consider myself among them. Lingering scars from my undergraduate years left me feeling unworthy of the school's offer.
As I arrived in the fall of 1998, I carried the belief that I would likely fail each semester. Uncertainty clouded my mind about when it would happen, but I assumed that eventually, the truth would surface. In my eyes, I didn't belong there, and this feeling was a natural consequence of the school's perceived mistake in admitting me.
To my astonishment, after each semester, I remained. Moreover, I was doing reasonably well. While I can't take full credit for my success, I can honestly say that forming relationships with fellow students played a significant role.
Studying with groups was a novel concept for me, despite my previous degrees from undergrad and graduate school. I had been accustomed to solitary study. Yet, during my three years in law school and even while preparing for the bar exam, I found myself studying with the same core group of dedicated peers.
These weren't just study partners; they became my support system and family. I attended conferences, social gatherings, football games, and even watched wrestling matches with them. They were more than just random people who came together to study. They were instrumental in my success.
I often wonder how successful I would have been if I had insisted on studying in isolation. Fortunately, I was blessed to have this core group of individuals who were as committed to my success as I was to theirs.
In the end, being surrounded by these remarkable people prevented me from becoming my own worst enemy. They helped me achieve my goals and never allowed me to dwell on my unwarranted fears of failure.
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