Lessons Learned: The DJ Contract Conundrum

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**Title:** *Lessons Learned: The DJ Contract Conundrum*

It's remarkable how a single encounter with a DJ can shape one's perspective on handling professional arrangements. Often, we engage with professionals, whether friends or acquaintances, and expect them to treat us with kid gloves due to our personal relationships. However, it's crucial to understand that they are striving to be professionals in their respective fields, and they won't treat us differently just because we know them.

My own transformative experience occurred during the summer of 1996 when I was in charge of organizing a fundraiser event involving a party and a dance competition. In my quest to make the event a success, I hired a DJ recommended by a coworker. I hadn't interacted with this DJ before or witnessed his work, relying solely on my colleague's endorsement. We entered into a contract, agreeing to pay him around $500 for his DJ services.

Regrettably, when the event unfolded, the DJ's performance was far from satisfactory. He lacked responsiveness, ignored requests, and refused to adapt his music to the energy on the dance floor. Complaints fell on deaf ears, and he maintained a stubborn attitude, convinced that he knew best simply because he was the DJ. Frustration boiled within me as I watched nearly 200 partygoers standing idle on the dance floor due to the poor musical choices.

In the aftermath of the event, I contemplated withholding payment from the DJ. I believed he hadn't earned or deserved compensation. However, before taking any action, I decided to consult a friend, particularly my fraternity brother who was studying law at the time. Amid the chaos of the party, I found myself outside on the phone, venting my frustration to him. He asked a simple but crucial question: "What were the terms of your contract?"

At that moment, I was only thinking about the verbal agreement, not a written one. I hadn't yet attended law school, but my friend's inquiry immediately calmed my frustration. As I considered it further, I realized that I had only stated I would pay him $500 to DJ. My fraternity brother then inquired whether I had specified the types of music or expectations for his performance. I was initially resistant, wondering why I should need to specify such details. He patiently explained that without clear expectations, I would get what I got. If I hired him to DJ for $500, I had to accept that he was doing precisely that.

Although I felt frustrated and defeated, I understood that I had indeed entered into a contract, albeit informally. I begrudgingly accepted that the DJ had fulfilled the terms of the agreement, even if the outcome was disappointing.

That conversation marked a turning point for me. It stripped away the personal aspects of the situation and reminded me that this predicament was of my own making. I learned the importance of clarity and specificity in agreements. When I later hired another DJ for a subsequent event, I made sure to put everything in writing, outline my expectations clearly, and even sought feedback from others who had experienced the DJ's work. This experience was a valuable lesson in separating personal feelings from professional agreements, a lesson I carried with me as I pursued a career in law.