Why I Chose to Serve: Reflections on Family, Legacy, and Inspiration
Someone recently asked me what motivated or inspired me to join the military. It was a profound question that made me pause and reflect. No one had ever asked me that before, and truthfully, I’d never taken the time to consider what drew me to military service. If I’m honest, the answer lies in the people I admired most while growing up. As an only child raised in a single-parent household, I was fortunate to be surrounded by strong, positive Black men—many of whom had served in the military. What stands out is that none of them ever pushed me to serve. They didn’t tell war stories, wear their service as a badge of honor, or suggest I follow in their footsteps. Yet, their quiet example spoke volumes. My dad’s brother served in Vietnam. My grandfather fought in World War II, enduring the Battle of the Bulge. Four of my uncles on my mother’s side served across various branches of the military. While none of them openly discussed their time in service, their presence and legacy were un...